My Story

One July 1, 2009 I entered the Medical Center of Arlington to deliver my beautiful baby boy, of which I knew had passed away two days before. His heart had stopped beating. It was a sureal experience walking into that hospital knowing what needed to be done. With my husband and mother by my side, I had to do the unthinkable.

My tiny baby of 1 lb. was delivered shortly after. We named him Greyson. And he was perfect. I remember his tiny little hands and feet. His small little face. He looked so little wrapped up in the nursery blanket. It was all so overwhelming, and peaceful at the same time. I loved holding his tiny little body in my arms. This was the last time I would see his tiny little face here on earth. Such a tiny baby in a big blanket it seemed. We said our goodbyes, and the nurse took him away.

After this experience, I have thought alot about that day. I think about others who have gone through this. Friends, family, and other loved ones. And those who I have not had the privledge to meet. Was their situation the same as mine? Did they hold their tiny baby in layers of blankets? Did it overwhelm them as it did me?

On that day, in the midst of all the sadness, and mourning, I received a gift. A gift from my tiny baby boy. He gave me an idea, of which, I promised to carry out. For all those mothers who enter the hospital wanting so badly to hold their baby in their arms and come home empty handed. This would be for them.

A gift by Greyson,
from me,
from you,
to them.

Mommy feels you, Greyson. And this is how I honor your memory.

I love you.

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I am looking for your help. Hospitals all across the country are in need of small, very small, baby blankets. In cases of fetal demise, babies are so tiny, even the smallest nursery blanket is much too big to wrap around their tiny bodies.

I know how parents feel when they are presented with their tiny baby, for the first and last time. Having to deal with a large blanket that doesn't fit, is a distraction. And, unnecessary.

If you can sew or crotchet/knit, would you please help me to supply blankets for these mothers?

My doctor informed me that 30% of all pregnancies end in fetal demise!

I know we can make a small yet, dramatic difference in the experience these mothers and fathers have in the hospital. It is heartbreaking for the nurses to try and present these tiny babies in the best way possible to grieving parents. They are extremely appreciative of any donations we can give.

If you would like to help in this cause, please start reading at the very beginning and learn about Greyson's Gift.
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2/22/10

One great experience

Posted by Meryntha
This story begins a couple of weeks ago when I ran into the gentlemen from Blessings Funeral Home here in Mansfield. His name is Jason. He was great to work with during our experience with Greyson. I will never forget him and what he did for our family.

I had been meaning to get in touch with him for quite some time, but couldn't bring myself to even look up his phone number. I even had some blankets set aside, especially for Blessings. But that wasn't enough motivation for me to call.

So one Saturday, we were out running errands all day. It was getting late, and the last thing I wanted to do was run home and fix dinner. So we stopped at my son's favorite restaurant, Texas Roadhouse. We have only been to this particular one once before. (On that day, we ran into Jason. It was interesting seeing him in different circumstances, other than how we initially met.) Anyway, as we were leaving the restaurant, my eyes happened to rest open a man standing at the jukebox. I walked past him, and thought to myself, "Hmm, that kind of looks like the man from Blessings Funeral Home. Wouldn't that be something if I saw him here once again." Then I stopped walking. I just had to go back and find out. I had prayed for strength to call or stop by. Maybe, just maybe, I wouldn't need to. And guess what... It WAS him! I told him all about Greyson's Gift and what all you wonderful women out there were doing. He was so excited! I know it was divine intervention that we were both there that night. Sheesh, if it were up to me, I would still be waiting for my nerves to settle.

So this past weekend, my husband and I delivered blankets to Blessings. And guess what? He talked to the owner which has 12 other mortuaries around Dallas/Fort Worth, and they all want blankets as well!!!! He told us that one if Fort Worth has many child deaths each year. No one knows why this is, but they could really use our blankets. They want flannel blankets as well as afghans. It was wonderful to see how happy he was. What a great experience!!!

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